Pleasing God While Protecting YourselfAdult Children of narcissistic families often find themselves stuck in predicaments that people with normal families never have to face. Featuring The 21 Rules of No Contact and 102 Questions to Ask Yourself When Deciding Whether to End an Abusive Relationship, Narcissistic Predicaments has the answers you’ve been looking for.
When you try to set boundaries, do your abusive relatives accuse you of not being a “good Christian” because:
•You are not honoring your father and mother?
•You have to “forgive and forget,” even though your abusers have not apologized or agreed to stop their abuse?
•You must forgive unrepentant evildoers because Jesus said “Father forgive them, for they know not what they do”?
•You are taking revenge by enforcing consequences, and vengeance is supposed to be the Lord’s?
•The Bible says “Love your enemies”?
In this book, you will learn effective strategies for protecting yourself and find out what the Bible really says about dilemmas such as:
•Should you let your estranged relatives have contact with your children?
•Dealing with the family meddler who tries to intervene between you and your abusive relative
•What to expect when you rock the boat by getting engaged or married
•Working in the family business with narcissists and sociopaths
•What to do about holidays, parties, and family celebrations, including Mother’s Day and Father’s Day
•Does your abuser’s apology automatically cover the other relatives who took his side?
•What to expect from estranged relatives who want to drag you back into their web
•Reconciling on your terms, not theirs
•If you don’t stick around, who will take care of your abusive parents in their old age?
•Visiting a dying abuser
•When your abuser or estranged relative dies- condolences, funerals, and obituaries
God does not want you to “live in peace” with evil people. A breath of fresh air for Adult Children of abusive families, this compelling book will help you find the peace our heavenly Father promised you, because you are His beloved child.
Reviews
TITLE: Narcissistic Predicaments by Sister Renee Pittelli
Publisher: Outskirts Press, Inc
Genre/Market: Religion, Christian Life, Family
Publication Date: 2010
Price: $ 22.95
Soft copy
5 Out of 5 points
Headline for Book Review: How to deal with Narcissistic parents growing up in a world of all negativity
Quote: “Jesus never tells us to forgive someone who is not remorseful or who is unwilling to change their ways.”
When ReviewTheBook dot com sent me this book
for free to do an honest review I had no idea what this book involved. I
wanted to read on how to deal with Narcissistic people whom are in my
own life. What I found out was that and so much more.
If you grew up with someone that was always
negative and no supporting of you and your life and ideas then this book
helps you get out of it forever. The author talks about the 21 Rules
of No Contact and the 102 Questions to Ask Yourself when deciding
whether to end an abusive relationship. You will answer those questions
from your heart and be able to use the tools and strategies to overcome
those whom have hurt your life in the past and how to deal with them
now.
The author Sister Renee Pittelli has tons of
scriptures to back up her claims which help the reader recover from the
narcissistic person(s) in their lives.
Do you ever wonder what you can expect in the
future, and how you will feel years from now if your abusers are no
longer in your life? This book will tell you how to get away from it
all and start living your full life the way it’s supposed to be. This
book helps us to set boundaries so that the abusive person(s) may not
have our permission to keep violating our lives.
Lessons from the author:
· Eventually they will lose their ability to impact you emotionally
· They’re not even in the ballpark of normal, and they never were.
· They are never going to be a part of your life again.
· Not everyone is going to hurt you.
· Healing takes time, but you will heal.
0 komentar
Posting Komentar